personal

Longing for love but lost in fear

My fear of intimacy, turning 42 and what's blocking me from love. Also, a 50% off birthday special.

Sep 12 •

The worst year of my life

Losing two big loves, nearly breaking my back, and getting robbed, all in a few months.

Aug 21 •

Why life is better without alcohol (and drugs)

And what I learned from 16 years of sobriety

Aug 1 •

What I'm struggling with these days

And the six things currently keeping me up at night. Losing my hair and my connection to my father, financial insecurity, and feelings of hopelessness…

Jul 25

Ten things I love and hate about dating apps

What I learned in 15 years of using dating app and how to use them effectively without burning out.

Jul 3 •

Ten things I look for in a partner

AKA ten things I want to love about you

Jun 26 •

Ten reasons dating me will be a nightmare

A list of qualities that might give you the ick.

Jun 14 •

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