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Christopher Zelno's avatar

This knocked me out. Very sobering. Have never had it explained to me this way before. This is me. Want to get and do better.

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Shaun Galanos's avatar

Welcome to the club, Christopher. I hope I didn't knock you completely out.

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Christopher Zelno's avatar

Thank you,. And nope , not completely knocked out. . . Nobody ever died from being emotionally uncomfortable, a wise man once told me, Shaun. 🤣

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Tina Storey's avatar

Waah. I guess that I am emotionally unavailable. If you don't take it seriously, you cannot get hurt!

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Shaun Galanos's avatar

Join the club 😅

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Dee's avatar

Great article 👏

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Angie P's avatar

Love this! I am so afraid of becoming emotionally unavailable. I give my whole heart in everything I do! How many times can you open yourself up and be completely venerable only to have your heart broken. Maybe I'm choosing the wrong hearts to open up to?

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Shaun Galanos's avatar

Maybe, it's hard to say. There is such a thing as too open, too quickly, before you know the person is safe to open up to.

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Angie P's avatar

I know it's hard to put a timeline but would you say two to three months of exclusively dating is too early?

All of my friends are married so I love reading other single people's experiences!

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ClareB's avatar

Great article and timely. Saving this x thank you

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Mary Grace's avatar

Agreed, great article! Thank you. X x x

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