High libido and disappointing men

The first edition of the monthly love advice column: Love, Shaun

Welcome to Love, Shaun, a monthly love advice column on everything related to love, sex, dating, and relationships. The sassy and sane advice and loving pep talk your older brother should have given you.

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Our two questions for the day are about libido clouding relationship potential and having lost the motivation to date men.

My libido is through the roof and is getting in the way of really meeting someone I can have a more fulfilling relationship with because I'm so focused on sex. Do you think a relationship that starts as promiscuous sex could develop?

-Over 40 Single Mum

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I have not been on a date in almost a year because I ultimately gave up after too many disappointing dates and relationships with men. Is it bad that I've lost all motivation to date?

-Milan